Not sure what on earth happened last night.
The day starts with him asking me if we could carpool to our hometown on the weekend. His mother’s birthday and my father’s birthday is in the same week. It ends with him spending the night at my apartment in the spare room.
We decided to get together to discuss if we could arrange a way to carpool. We were just going to meet in the park to take a walk while discussing it. It somehow transitioned into us going to dinner instead of for a walk. During dinner he broke down and told me that him and his girlfriend have been broken up for nearly a month. She’s only still living there so her kids wouldn’t be stranded. Which she is milking because she wants to be dating him still.
After dinner he checks his phone and has gotten a billion of texts from her. According to him she’s stolen his car and won’t tell him where it is. She’s driving it with a suspended license. She’s trying to use it as a pawn to get him to go to her.
She didn’t know he was with me. He only told her that he was out with a friend. He ended up staying over at my place so he could actually get some sleep.
At one point in the night he said he realized he made a huge mistake about everything. He’s been very depressed lately.
In the end we used the chance of her being out of the house as a way for me to get some more of my stuff with his truck. I have my dining set and my cat has her scratching posts.
I’m not sure what to make of him and her since they fight and break up so much.
I don’t know if we’ll last as friends. Whatever separation settlement I give him he will fight.
I don’t like conflict. I don’t like arguing.